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Sunday, October 23, 2011

3 years!


I found this on a friends blog and thought since my Anniversary is tomorrow it was a fun fitting thing to do, talk all about my dear love :)

20 Questions

1. Where did you meet?
Well J went to church with a friend cuz he was moving and between wards. His friend Rustin said "yeah there are some really cute girls in my ward you should come with me, I'll introduce you to this one girl I think you'd get along with great" (well something like that :) ) and so when J gets there  it so happens the girl he was supposed to meet did not attend that day. But I was :) I was sitting by myself and he looked me up in the "Ward Menu" got my phone number etc, after Sacrament meeting he came and said Hi to me...and I blew him off! Lucky me he didn't give  up! He found me on facesbook and we chatted a bit, then he asked for my number, eventhough he already had it, and called me. We talked for like an hour and a half easy! And he asked me if I wanted to go for a walk, but it was night and I thought that was weird to meet a guy off facebook and talk a walk at night, at this point I didn't yet know he'd seen me first at church. So instead he asked me to go out to breakfast with him Monday morning before he flew out to New Jersey for work (side note happened to be his best sales week of ever). And so he came and picked me up and we went to Magleby's Fresh for french toast.

2. What was the first thought that went through your head when you met?
 "we should probably just be friends right now..." (You see I was currently dating like 3 other guys at the time...and one had asked me to marry him)


3. Do you remember what he/she was wearing?
Um a t shirt and grey jeans

4.Where was the first time you kissed this person?
On the front porch of the Plotts home ( I was living there at the time) and we'd gone out a couple times and were getting back from a movie, 10,000 BC where he held my hand and I know I thought to myself " I shouldn't be feeling so excited about this guy I mean I just wanted to be friends *P* asked me to marry him and I kinda said yes..." and that friends thought didn't last much longer. He walked me to the door and kissed me good night :) 

5. Where did you go for your first date?
Well I kinda told the story of breakfast at Maglebys and our second date we saw 10,000 BC and out third date was pretty awesome. You see he had just bought a Condo in Springville and had no furniture so we went furniture shopping and everyone thought we were married haha. And we tried out beds and he ended up picking the mattress I liked, and still own. So on my third date I picked out my bed and its still an awesome bed, then we went and watched the Flames game and I met his sisters Lisa and Liberty. 


6. How long did you know this person before you became a couple?
Well, I had some boys to break things off with. Jesse was only in town every other week with his job, which meant when he was in town we saw each other like everyday and when he was gone we chatted on MSN every night, and texted too. It took like 2 weeks, one of him gone and one of seeing him everyday. The weekend happened to be Gen Conference and I drove to Grand Junction and met up with the  guy I'd been 'engaged too' and knew I should not be with him. I'd had some really good talks with J and I thought about him the whole time I was on the date with other guy and when other guy cried at the end of our date it was like set in stone done for me.


7. How did he/she ask you out?
Facebook to get permission to call me. He asked me out over the phone :)

8. Has this person ever proposed to you?
Yes he did, and I will cut and paste the story I wrote on that Day:

So we'd been planning on going to breakfast on the 4th and goin on a hike or somethin up the canyon so i wasnt expecting anything! (which is exactly how i wanted it to be!) We went and ate breakfast at Magelby's , which is where we had our first date :) and it was PACKED!! haha but tasty! then we headed up the canyon. We tried to go up to Bridal Veil Falls first but it was way crowded so we left; we then proceeded to Sundance. We hiked up to a waterfall up there and it was very warm outside! But we got to the top and jesse was complaining about his knee hurting he'd been wearing his brace and stuff and so instead of sitting by me he got up and walked behind me. (and in my head i was kinda thinking "oh come on you baby just sit down" haha!) THEN he gets on his knee next to me and puts this ring in front of me! I gasped and he asked me to marry him :) I said yes and cried a little and then we started texting people.. cuz strangely we had perfect cell service on top of that mountain




9. Do you and this person have kids together?
Yes, a Daughter Maia who is almost 2! I can hardly believe it, and we are expecting our second daughter the first week in March (relatively of course :))

10.Have you ever broken the law with this person?
Only speeding...I think..

11. When was the first time you realized you liked this person?
Well I liked it a lot hanging out with him, he made me feel so happy. Pretty sure I was ALWAYS smiling around him! I knew I really liked him when we went to this concert and I told him how one of my ex's was lead in one of the bands playing and he was like "Well, lets make him jealous then" and it worked. But on the drive home we got really deep into talking and I didn't want it to end!
I knew I wanted it to last forever though the night I was coming home from Grand Junction and I stopped for gas and this trucker asked me for my phone number and I got a little freaked out. When I stopped to potty in Wellington and the same guy was waiting at the register when I came out I was SCARED! And the only person I wanted to talk to was Jesse. And so I called him and he talked to me until I lost service and then until I went to sleep once I got home.


But you know what else? I knew  for sure, confirmation from the Lord and all this one night while he was out of town and I missed him terribly. We were chatting online and he told me  there was a tornado warning and I was sooo scared something would happen to him! We were chatting about things and he said something that was directly from my patriarchal blessing. I cried and told him that and he said no way that's in mine too!! And I never ever ever looked back.
12. Do you get along with his/her family?
I'm pretty sure I get along with all of them :)


13. Do you trust this person?
Completely

14. What is your favorite thing about this person?
I love all of him. I love how he wants me to be the best I can be, and he wants to protect me from the bad guys and monsters. I love when he giggles :) I love what a good daddy he is.

15. What is the best gift he/she gave you?
He helped me decide to be a Massage Therapist, and he believes in me and that I can be great at it. If you want to talk materialistically this one time he brought me a silly scary movie when he was on a road trip and it just made me smile so much that he was thinking of me while he was gone.

16. What is one thing he/she does that gets on your nerves?
Sometimes I find his dirty socks all over the house...but come on if that's the worst thing? I can deal with dirty socks.

17. Where do you see each other 15 years from now?
I see us running a successful Chiropractic office. With a few more kiddos and maybe if I'm lucky a puppy. But I bet we'll be very happy either way.


18. What causes the most arguments?
Honestly lack of sleep or low blood sugar (or pregnant hormones) we don't really fight... but when I'm tired or hungry everything makes me mad.

19. How long have you been together?
Three and a half years.

20. Are you married?
Yes, Happily. 3 years Oct 24th 2011



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